I’m assuming you came here from daisy lola’s page? What I’m saying is that who he masturbates to is not my business. Masturbation is primal, it is about pleasure. Masturbating to images or video’s isn’t symbolic of love. Sure, if he was pleasuring himself to pictures of girls he knew or had been intimate with I think I would find that a little overwhelming. However, how do I know that he doesn’t think of girls he knows, how does he know I don’t think boys I know?
It doesn’t really matter. It’s not a reflection of who or how we love. The thing is, I don’t need to know. Sometime’s it’s better to stay curious you know?
As for sleeping with other people. I am a reactive being, so sure I would be hurt. But life is anything but black and white, there are too many external forces in this world to able to answer this “correctly”. Sometimes life is messy, and it’s easier and cleaner to accept that than to fight it. Though, if a partner convinces you that they are monogamous and then sleeps with people continuously without you being aware. That is deceptive, and disrespectful and it is not okay. But “cheating” doesn’t necessarily involve malice, or lies, and sometime’s it is purely situational. It would be wise to always have compassion for people.